Tag: Parenting

Fathers And Sons

Between parents and children, friendship is not possible in the full sense of the word. It just, just, kind of a supporting element of the educational process and, ultimately, is not the only carbohydrate interaction. Children remember that parents have made them into the light, that gave them life – in short, they are the first who will fall to them on the eyes in my life. Friends come vposledstvii.S friends can read the online youth magazine, watch TV, read original articles, listen to radio, going to the movies. But all is not what … Nobody in the world is no substitute for parents.

Parents should be good to remember that above all – the children, and after them all the more. To our extreme regret and disappointment is not so, as if it should be. Therefore, there are problems. Parents want to see in the children themselves, and children – parents themselves. Should not perceive reality as the Creator who created it: in harmony – the children are children, parents – the parents? Ah, the youth of today would ask embarrassing questions: “If this were the last day of your life, then what would you spent it? ‘. I think it should not apply here answers, let alone think everyone on this issue.


This is very important: the kid sees not only the "here and now", but a yesterday and a tomorrow. He is the author of his life. He understands that his current failure – a consequence of his yesterday's sloppiness, and, on the other hand, his preparation for today lessons is the guarantee of its success tomorrow. Prepare for a new role – parents of students – and adults need. You can not abruptly change their claims to the child. The fact that mom and dad are also beginning to focus only on the mark ("Who loves troechnikov, my dear"), may injure the baby more than the original school troubles. In fact, the information load of school children are not so frightening, if not previously experienced emotional pressure. The matter is complicated by the fact that today almost all preschool-age children remain "nedoigravshimi." But only in the collective gaming skills appear informal communication with peers and adults.

bases on gaming activities. It is important that the child in school there was no so-called generalized negative self-esteem. If a first-of-behind "two" in the Russian language would think that he is the most stupid, most worthless, the most unnecessary, most unfortunate – it would be awful. It is necessary to take such grief private. Cheer on the kid. "Yes, today, deuce, but here, now, in this lesson. Yesterday this was not twos.

Surely it will not be tomorrow, the day after tomorrow you will be better educated, perhaps not the most literate, but it is high performing. But in mathematics you do everything right. " Parents do not remember the stories of his childhood, what they were diligent students. These stories frequently lead the child in the state of stress. No need to compare your baby with you, with my grandmother, with other children. Our children are loaded with other problems, they are prone to stress that we have not experienced.